DEADLINE OF RETURN.
For me there are two types of people, those who have a philosophy of life, values and beliefs that defend, and those who claim to have them. I explain. I know a person and he tells me his philosophy of life. "I am very rebellious"; "I am a brave"; "I am very tolerant" and an infinite list of "I am", "I believe", "I take my life in such a way".
Sometimes it's real. But other times, you scratch a little and you realize that it's pure appearance. A character that has been mounted and pretends to be. You can not be brave, if you have never thrown yourself into the pool without being clear if there was water. You can not say I'm a rebel, if you've never had to break everything and exploit your comfort zone. You can not be tolerant, if you have never seen yourself in the situation of tolerating, of accepting without conditions.
If these people were stores, let's say that I would buy their products because I like them. I believe them. I love. Or they convince me. But it would end up returning them for being defective. Because it was not what was expected of them. Because they have cheated me. I want my money. You may be angry and feel cheated. But do not worry, luckily life gives us a return period. And think that you give it back, but that person has to stay with them again.